Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 19-12-2021

Image – ‘Buddha in the Trees’ - Caheraderry, Lahinch, County Clare, Ireland - June 2015
Image – ‘Buddha in the Trees’ - Caheraderry, Lahinch, County Clare, Ireland - June 2015

“From inappropriate attention you’re being chewed by your thoughts. Relinquishing what’s inappropriate, contemplate appropriately.

Keeping your mind on the Teacher, the Dhamma, the Saṅgha, your virtues, you will arrive at joy, rapture, pleasure without doubt.

Then, saturated with joy, you will put an end to suffering & stress.”

~ Inappropriate Attention: Ayoniso-manasikāra Sutta  (SN 9:11)

SUNDAY, December 19, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from:

11:45 am  PT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
12:45 pm  MT (eg Denver)
1:45 pm  CT (eg Chicago)
2:45 pm  ET (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm  BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm  CET/ (eg France)
9:45 pm  CAT (eg Botswana)
10:45 pm  EAT (eg Kenya)

Ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Patrick, who will be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘Buddha in the Trees’ – Caheraderry, Lahinch, County Clare, Ireland – June 2015

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 16-12-2021

Book cover - You Can Heal Your Life
Book cover - You Can Heal Your Life

Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.

~ Louise L. Hay [source: You Can Heal Your Life]

THURSDAY, December 16, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from:

11:45 am PDT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
12:45 pm MDT (eg Denver)
1:45 pm CDT (eg Chicago)
2:45 pm EDT (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm CEST/CAT (eg France/Botswana)
9:45 pm EAT (eg Kenya)

Ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Bruce, who will be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 13-12-2021

If we see suffering then we don’t have suffering.

~ Ajahn Chah

MONDAY, December 13, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from…

12:45 pm PT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
1:45 pm MT (eg Denver)
2:45 pm CT (eg Chicago)
3:45 pm ET (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm CET (eg France)
9:45 pm CAT (eg Botswana)
10:45 pm EAT (eg Kenya)

…ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Patrick, who will also be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘Meditation Circle’Portland Friends of the Dhamma, Portland, Oregon, USA – June 2018

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 12-12-2021

Image – ‘Wooden Buddha’ - Nalagiri House, Carrigahorig, County Tipperary, Ireland - December 2021
Image – ‘Wooden Buddha’ - Nalagiri House, Carrigahorig, County Tipperary, Ireland - December 2021

By favouring the body, one uselessly accumulates suffering.
Of what use is anger or love to something equal to a piece of wood?

~ Shantideva [source: A Guide to the Bodhisattva’s Way of Life]

SUNDAY, December 12, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from:

11:45 am  PT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
12:45 pm  MT (eg Denver)
1:45 pm  CT (eg Chicago)
2:45 pm  ET (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm  BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm  CET/ (eg France)
9:45 pm  CAT (eg Botswana)
10:45 pm  EAT (eg Kenya)

Ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Robert, who will be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘Wooden Buddha’ – Nalagiri House, Carrigahorig, County Tipperary, Ireland – December 2021

Buddhist Recovery Summit 2021

Group of people holding hands.

Links to further information and resources as referenced at Buddhist Recovery Summit 2021

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Fifth Precept Sangha Downloads

Sit-and-Share Topics

Fifth Precept Sangha Helpful Links

Sit-and-Share Guidelines for Sharing

  • Everyone is equally invited to contribute; but ‘sharing’ is optional and
    voluntary.
  • You do not have to agree with the topic.
  • There should be no interruptions during individual sharing.
  • There should be no criticism, or personal comments – although a
    response is ok if its relevant
  • Please pause before you share – to provide a space for ideas to become
    embodied.
  • Please try to suspend assumptions and judgement; and not to to convince
    others.
  • ‘Sharing’ should not driven by fear of censure or judgement, or by the
    desire for “success”.
  • You are encouraged to be open to the whole experience – the whole is
    greater than the sum of the individual contributions.

Putting these guidelines into effect requires buy-in from all participants – from the whole Group. We do this using the guidelines for Bohmian Dialogue. These are based on principles laid down by David Bohm, a theoretical physicist (b. 1917), an associate of J. Krishnamurti and A. Einstein, and advisor to the Dalai Lama.


Hungry Ghost Retreats

Blogs, Podcasts and Videos

Upcoming retreats and online workshops


The Dharma of Life ~ an attempt at a full list of resources would be endless but here are some suggested reading (and viewing) to widen the perspective

How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett

YouTube: How Emotions are Made (Cinematic Lecture)

Being You: A New Science of Consciousness By Professor Anil Seth

TED Talk: Being You: A New Science of Consciousness (TED Talk)

How the Mind Works By Steven Pinker

The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World By: Iain McGilchrist

Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain By Lisa Feldman Barrett

YouTube: Psycho-logical with Dean Burnett

The Brain: The Story of You By David Eagleman

Secular Buddhism – Imagining the Dharma in an Uncertain World
by Stephen Batchelor

After Buddhism – Rethinking the Dharma for a Secular Age by Stephen Batchelor

Review: Secular Dharma By Stephen Batchelor

YouTube: Rethinking the Dharma for a Secular Age with Stephen Batchelor

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 09-12-2021

Image – ‘False Narratives’ - White Temple, Chiang Rai, Thailand
Image – ‘False Narratives’ - White Temple, Chiang Rai, Thailand

The real problem is believing in the existence of a worthy or unworthy self in the first place. Worthy/unworthy or perfect/imperfect are equally false narratives. From the Buddhist point of view, there is no worthy or unworthy self.

~ Pema Khandro Rinpoche [source: You’re Ready Enough (Lion’s Roar Magazine) ]

THURSDAY, December 09, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from:

11:45 am PDT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
12:45 pm MDT (eg Denver)
1:45 pm CDT (eg Chicago)
2:45 pm EDT (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm CEST/CAT (eg France/Botswana)
9:45 pm EAT (eg Kenya)

Ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Vince, who will be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘False Narratives’ – White Temple, Chiang Rai, Thailand

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 06-12-2021

Image – ‘The Four Agreements’ - by Don Miguel Ruiz - book cover.
Image – ‘The Four Agreements’ - by Don Miguel Ruiz - book cover.

People like to say that the conflict is between good and evil. The real conflict is between truth and lies.

~ Don Miguel Ruiz

MONDAY, December 06, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

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The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from…

12:45 pm PT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
1:45 pm MT (eg Denver)
2:45 pm CT (eg Chicago)
3:45 pm ET (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm CET (eg France)
9:45 pm CAT (eg Botswana)
10:45 pm EAT (eg Kenya)

…ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Noel, who will also be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘The Four Agreements’ – by Don Miguel Ruiz – book cover.

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 05-12-2021

Image – ‘All Things Must Pass' - by George Harrison - Album Cover
Image – ‘All Things Must Pass' - by George Harrison - Album Cover

Sunrise doesn’t last all morning
A cloudburst doesn’t last all-day
Seems my love is up
And has left you with no warning
But it’s not always going
To be this grey
All things must pass
All things must pass away

~ George Harrison [source: All Things Must Pass]

SUNDAY, December 05, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from:

11:45 am  PT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
12:45 pm  MT (eg Denver)
1:45 pm  CT (eg Chicago)
2:45 pm  ET (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm  BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm  CET/ (eg France)
9:45 pm  CAT (eg Botswana)
10:45 pm  EAT (eg Kenya)

Ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Robert, who will be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘All Things Must Pass’ – by George Harrison – Album Cover

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 02-12-2021

Image – ‘Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary - Ubud, Kabupaten Gianyar, Bali, Indonesia - August 2016
Image – ‘Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary - Ubud, Kabupaten Gianyar, Bali, Indonesia - August 2016

“All conditioned things are impermanent” – when one sees this with wisdom, one turns away from suffering.

~ Buddha [source: Dhammapada (verse 277)]

THURSDAY, December 02, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from:

11:45 am PDT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
12:45 pm MDT (eg Denver)
1:45 pm CDT (eg Chicago)
2:45 pm EDT (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm CEST/CAT (eg France/Botswana)
9:45 pm EAT (eg Kenya)

Ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Bruce, who will be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary‘ – Ubud, Kabupaten Gianyar, Bali, Indonesia – August 2016

Virtual Sit-and-Share Topic 29-11-2021

Image – ‘Rocko's Tacos’ - 24th Street, San Francisco, California, USA - June 2018
Image – ‘Rocko's Tacos’ - 24th Street, San Francisco, California, USA - June 2018

We’re embodied humans, not angels. If we didn’t ‘crave’ food, drink, sex and shelter, then we wouldn’t be here at all. If we didn’t seek intimate and other warm connections with each other, as well as insights into how our world works, stimulation of our higher senses, and better ways to live, then we wouldn’t lead meaningful human lives.

~ Winton Higgins [source: Response to Mike Slott’s ‘Reexamining “truths” and “tasks” in secular Buddhism’ at Secular Buddhist Network]

MONDAY, November 29, 2021

No registration is required. The meeting link is –

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/4537777699

…alternatively, you can connect manually, with Zoom meeting ID 453 777 7699 and passcode ‘5ps‘.

The topic is for contemplation, reflection and sharing at the online virtual ‘Sit-and-Share’ meditation meeting via Zoom from…

12:45 pm PT (eg San Francisco/Vancouver)
1:45 pm MT (eg Denver)
2:45 pm CT (eg Chicago)
3:45 pm ET (eg New York/Tampa)
7:45 pm BST (eg Dublin/London)
8:45 pm CET (eg France)
9:45 pm CAT (eg Botswana)
10:45 pm EAT (eg Kenya)

…ready for a prompt start at the top of the hour. This meeting’s topic was chosen by Vince, who will also be our ‘Sit-and-Share’ host.

All welcome.


Image – ‘Rocko’s Tacos’ – 24th Street, San Francisco, California, USA – June 2018